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Insignia Prime Steak & Sushi blends the feel of a Hamptons-style mansion with the energy of a sleek Manhattan restaurant. Known for USDA Prime dry-aged steaks and a sushi menu crafted by a dedicated sushi chef, it offers an upscale dining experience in a refined setting. The space features quarried stone, copper roofing, and a dramatic wine cellar that overlooks the dance floor—frequently used for private events and weddings.

The restaurant hosts one wedding at a time, with personal coordination, indoor and outdoor ceremony options, and premium open bar service that includes top-shelf spirits like Grey Goose and Macallan 12. Guests can enjoy a cocktail hour at the grand bar or the outdoor lounge, while attentive staff serve two signature drinks butler-style. Wine lovers will appreciate the curated selection from an in-house sommelier, and beer fans can choose from 16 drafts, including five specialty IPAs.

Opus Steakhouse offers a bold and contemporary setting for couples who want their wedding day to stand out. This fully reimagined North Shore mansion hosts just one wedding at a time, giving you exclusive use of the dramatic glass-walled interiors, outdoor terraces, and landscaped gardens. Ceremonies can be held indoors or out, and the venue includes private bridal and groom suites, a suspended wine loft, and a built-in AV system for seamless entertainment.

Guests are treated to high-end cuisine from an open kitchen, with menu options ranging from prime-aged steak to fresh-caught seafood, plus a sommelier-curated wine list and 16 draft beers on tap. An on-site planner helps bring every detail together in a setting designed to impress from start to finish.

The Fox Hollow is a proudly LGBTQ+-friendly wedding venue on Long Island’s Gold Coast, set on an eight-acre estate in Woodbury. It offers a range of elegant spaces for both indoor and outdoor ceremonies, including the Winter Garden Pavilion, Garden Terrace Ballroom, and the private Somerley venue tucked in the north gardens.

The estate features classic North Shore architecture, landscaped gardens, and a boutique hotel for guests. On-site planners work closely with couples to ensure each detail reflects their vision, with private suites, customizable AV setups, and lighting options available.

Fox Hollow’s culinary team delivers standout cuisine from cocktail hour to dessert. Guests can enjoy a rotating menu of hors d’oeuvres and stations—from charcuterie and caprese to Mediterranean, southern comfort, and regional Italian selections. Dinner service and custom desserts round out the celebration with both style and substance.

Every wedding here is exclusive, with only one hosted at a time, ensuring full attention to each couple’s celebration.

Rare650 offers a standout setting for weddings on Long Island, centered around its dramatic glass Conservatory. Designed to impress in all seasons, this temperature-controlled space features soaring atrium ceilings, a 12-foot mantle, and views of surrounding gardens that bring the outdoors in. The venue hosts over 100 guests comfortably and allows for both indoor and outdoor ceremonies.

Culinary options include dry-aged steaks, fresh seafood, and sushi, all prepared by top-rated chefs, with wine pairings curated by the in-house sommelier. From ceremony to last dance, Rare650 blends architectural elegance with exceptional service and customizable menus for a refined celebration.

At One10, weddings are intimate, stylish, and all yours. This modern Italian steakhouse transforms into a dedicated event space where couples can celebrate with up to 200 guests in complete privacy. The venue’s sleek architecture and warm interiors set the stage for standout photos, while onsite ceremonies, custom cocktails, and curated wines elevate the experience.

With a dedicated event planner, state-of-the-art AV, and a menu designed for impact, One10 makes sure every detail is unforgettable.

The Halston is a wedding venue designed for couples who want a space that’s all theirs for the day: stylish, flexible, and thoughtfully run. Set up your ceremony indoors or out, then move into cocktails and canapés followed by a three-course meal, all tailored to your taste.

The menu leans broad and modern, from sushi and seafood to pasta, burgers, and sliders, matched with cocktails and wines chosen by their sommelier.

With exclusive use of the venue, built-in photo backdrops, and a dedicated planner to manage the flow, it’s a polished but relaxed setting to celebrate with up to 200 guests.

Blackstone Steakhouse redefines the Long Island wedding experience with bold architecture, refined interiors, and a commitment to making each celebration one of a kind. From indoor fireplaces to outdoor ceremony spaces, this Melville setting is tailored for unforgettable moments. Couples have exclusive use of the venue, with dedicated suites, state-of-the-art AV, and a full event team on hand.

The menu, curated in a Zagat-rated kitchen, features everything from dry-aged steaks to sushi, with wine pairings by an in-house sommelier. It’s a space where elegant design meets exceptional hospitality.

The Watermill in Smithtown offers a refined, full-service wedding experience that blends tradition with modern luxury. From the moment couples arrive, they’re supported by a team of expert planners and attentive staff, ensuring every detail reflects their unique story. On-site ceremonies can take place in elegant indoor chapels or lush outdoor gardens, allowing guests to enjoy a seamless transition from vows to cocktails to reception.

The venue features a range of ballrooms suited for weddings of all sizes—from intimate gatherings in the Bostonian and Newporter rooms to grand celebrations in the Vanderbilt and Astor ballrooms. Each space includes Brazilian cherry wood dance floors, integrated lighting, fireplaces, and personal bars. Guests can enjoy scenic photo spots across the grounds, including gazebos, arbors, footbridges, and waterfalls.

Culinary excellence is central to the Watermill’s offering. Cocktail hour menus include global influences and seasonal favorites, complemented by a white-glove dinner service and personalized enhancements. The in-house pastry team delivers desserts that double as showpieces, with wedding cakes and sweet stations crafted to impress.

Additional amenities include a private bridal suite, valet parking, state-of-the-art AV, and full accessibility. As one of Long Island’s premier wedding venues, The Watermill consistently delivers thoughtful service, standout cuisine, and timeless surroundings for couples and their guests.