Gay Rochester

    Gay Rochester

    One of the most gay-friendly cities in New York, Rochester offers plenty of things to do for gay travelers

    Hotels

    Hyatt Regency Rochester
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    125 East Main St, Rochester

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    Why this hotel? Great base for exploring. Amazing room views.

    The Hyatt Regency Rochester is a sleek and modern getaway overlooking the Genesee River, right in the heart of the city. As the tallest hotel in the Finger Lakes region, it offers stunning views of Rochester, Lake Ontario, or the river from its stylish, newly renovated rooms. Whether you’re here for business, wine tours, or exploring local attractions like the National Museum of Play, this hotel makes for a comfortable and convenient home base.

    Rooms are designed to be your retreat, with free Wi-Fi, flat-screen TVs, and designer toiletries. Suites add extra perks like kitchenettes and separate seating areas, perfect for longer stays or spreading out a little more. For dining, Astor on Main and The Street Craft Kitchen & Bar serve up delicious meals, while the seasonal Center City Terrace & Lounge is a great spot for cocktails and small bites with a view. Need a quick pick-me-up? Boulder Coffee in the lobby has you covered.

    The hotel also features an indoor pool, a fitness center, and direct access to the Rochester Riverside Convention Center. With its mix of comfort, location, and amenities, Hyatt Regency Rochester is ideal for travelers looking to explore Upstate New York in style.

    Country Inn Suites By Radisson Rochester Pittsford
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    2835 Monroe Avenue, Rochester

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    Why this hotel? Perfect location, near attractions and conveniences. Great service.

    Country Inn & Suites by Radisson, Rochester-Pittsford/Brighton, offers a cozy and convenient stay just a short drive from downtown Rochester. Perfectly situated near top attractions like the Memorial Art Gallery and Oak Hill Country Club, it’s an easy choice for both leisure and business travelers. Free parking and a complimentary breakfast mean you can start your day stress-free, whether you’re heading to a meeting or exploring the Finger Lakes region.

    The rooms are comfortable and practical, with flat-screen TVs, free Wi-Fi, mini-refrigerators, and coffee makers to make you feel right at home. For those keeping up with work or fitness goals, the hotel offers a business center and a gym. Need a snack or quick pick-me-up? There’s a snack bar/deli onsite, and the hotel’s 24-hour front desk staff is always ready to help.

    With its convenient location, thoughtful amenities, and warm, welcoming vibe, Country Inn & Suites Rochester-Pittsford/Brighton is a solid choice for travelers looking to enjoy Rochester without any hassle.

    The Inn On Broadway
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    1301 South Broadway, Rochester

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    Why this hotel? Cozy, luxurious rooms. Great restaurant!

    The Inn on Broadway is a boutique, luxury hotel in the heart of Rochester’s East End Theatre District. Housed in a historic 1929 building, it’s been lovingly restored into a 25-room retreat that feels both elegant and comfortable. Every room has hardwood floors, a gas fireplace, and either a Jacuzzi or soaking tub, giving you plenty of space to relax after a day in the city.

    When it’s time to eat, Tournedos Steakhouse is the star of the show. Their dry-aged steaks, fresh seafood, and incredible wine list make it a standout spot for dinner. It’s the kind of place where every meal feels a little bit like a celebration.

    The Inn also hosts events, with spaces and a team ready to help with weddings, meetings, or any gathering you’re planning. With its central location, cozy vibe, and thoughtful touches, The Inn on Broadway is a great pick for anyone visiting Rochester.

    The Strathallan Rochester
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    550 East Avenue, Rochester

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    Why this hotel? Great service. Clean, beautiful interiors.

    The Strathallan Rochester Hotel & Spa is a stylish spot in the city’s historic district, just steps from cultural gems like the George Eastman Museum and Memorial Art Gallery. Whether you’re in town for business or a weekend getaway, this modern hotel blends comfort with a touch of luxury.

    Rooms are outfitted with custom-designed beds, free Wi-Fi, and extras like microwaves and mini-fridges. Some even have balconies for a little outdoor space. If you’re looking for more room to spread out, the suites add separate living areas, making them great for longer stays.

    When it’s time to unwind, you’ve got options. Take a dip in the indoor pool, squeeze in a workout at the fitness center, or head to the rooftop bar, Hattie’s, for craft cocktails and chilled vodka on tap with stunning city views. For dining, Char Steak & Lounge serves up artisanal dishes in a space that doubles as an art gallery. Room service is also available if you feel like staying in.

    With a full-service spa, complimentary parking, and its signature warm DoubleTree chocolate chip cookie at check-in, The Strathallan makes every stay a little sweeter.

    Hilton Garden Inn Rochester Downtown
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    155 East Main Street, Rochester

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    Why this hotel? Delicious breakfast. Convenient location.

    The Hilton Garden Inn Rochester Downtown is a laid-back hotel that blends modern comfort with a touch of history, set in a 1920s building in the heart of Rochester. Just a short walk from the Rochester Riverside Convention Center and downtown shops, it’s a convenient spot for both business trips and city getaways. Bonus: They even offer a free shuttle to and from the airport.

    The rooms are cozy and functional, with free Wi-Fi, flat-screen TVs, and little extras like minifridges, microwaves, and coffeemakers. Suites give you more space to stretch out, with separate living areas and, in some cases, whirlpool tubs for extra relaxation.

    Dining here is easy and delicious. Drifters serves up a modern twist on comfort food with locally sourced ingredients and wines from the Finger Lakes. For breakfast, The Garden Grille offers a buffet to kick off your day. Other amenities include an indoor heated pool, a fitness center, and meeting spaces, making it a great pick for work or play.

    Bars

    Bachelor Forum
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    670 University Avenue, Rochester, USA

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    The Bachelor Forum is Rochester’s oldest gay-owned and operated bar, a true landmark for the local LGBTQ+ community.

    This old-school spot combines weekly drink specials with fun vibes, offering a pool table, darts, and themed nights like bear night, leather night, karaoke, and RuPaul's Drag Race viewing parties. Their daily Happy Hour, running from 2 pm to 9 pm, features three drinks for the price of two—extended if the party's going strong. The friendly staff and welcoming atmosphere make it a great place to meet new friends or just relax.

    Mon:14:00 - 02:00

    Tue:14:00 - 02:00

    Wed:14:00 - 02:00

    Thu:14:00 - 02:00

    Fri:14:00 - 02:00

    Sat:14:00 - 02:00

    Sun:14:00 - 02:00

    Last updated on: 23-Dec-2024

    The Avenue Pub
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    522 Monroe Avenue, Rochester, USA

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    Known affectionately as the “gay Cheers,” The Avenue Pub has been a staple of Rochester’s LGBTQ+ community since 1975. This welcoming space combines nightly drink specials, weekly menu changes, and lively events, creating a fun, inclusive environment.

    Recognized as one of Yelp’s Top 100 LGBTQ+ bars in the U.S., it’s a place where everyone is greeted with a smile and feels at home.

    Mon:16:00 - 00:00

    Tue:16:00 - 02:00

    Wed:14:00 - 02:00

    Thu:16:00 - 02:00

    Fri:16:00 - 02:00

    Sat:16:00 - 02:00

    Sun:12:00 - 00:00

    Last updated on: 23-Dec-2024

    Martine
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    647 South Avenue, Rochester, USA

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    Martine in Rochester offers a cozy space for expertly crafted cocktails and a curated selection of wines. Known for its creative drinks and relaxed vibe, it’s a great spot for casual hangouts or intimate evenings.

    Their “fun-size” cocktails at just $7 are a hit for those looking to sip lighter. Pair a drink with their cheese and charcuterie boards for a refined but approachable experience.

    Tue: Closed

    Wed:17:00 - 02:00

    Thu:17:00 - 02:00

    Fri:17:00 - 02:00

    Sat:17:00 - 02:00

    Sun:17:00 - 02:00

    Last updated on: 23-Dec-2024

    Restaurants

    Edibles Restaurant & Bar
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    704 University Avenue, Rochester, USA

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    Located in Rochester’s iconic Flatiron building, Edibles is a casual American bistro that’s been serving the city for over 20 years.

    With its creaky wooden floors and tin ceiling, this gay-owned space feels like a piece of NYC in the Neighborhood of the Arts. Featuring brunch, lunch, and dinner, they’re known for their creative American cuisine, outdoor seating, and extensive martini selection. Happy Hour runs Tuesday through Friday with great specials.

    Mon: Closed

    Tue:11:45 - 21:00

    Wed:11:45 - 21:00

    Thu:11:45 - 21:00

    Fri:11:45 - 21:00

    Sat:16:30 - 21:00

    Sun: Closed

    Last updated on: 23-Dec-2024

    Dinosaur Bar-B-Que
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    99 Court Street, Rochester, USA

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    Dinosaur Bar-B-Que in downtown Rochester brings Southern-style BBQ to the historic Lehigh Valley Railroad Station.

    With views of the Genesee River, it’s a great spot for smoky meats and draft brews in a retro setting. Their menu includes options for gluten-free, vegan, and vegetarian diners, and the private upstairs event space accommodates groups of 40-50 for special occasions.

    Mon:11:00 - 21:00

    Tue:11:00 - 21:00

    Wed:11:00 - 21:00

    Thu:11:00 - 21:00

    Fri:11:00 - 22:00

    Sat:11:00 - 22:00

    Sun:11:00 - 21:00

    Last updated on: 23-Dec-2024

    Tournedos Steakhouse
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    26 Broadway, Rochester, USA

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    Located at The Inn on Broadway, Tournedos Steakhouse is all about premium dining. Specializing in Domestic Wagyu, in-house dry-aged steaks, and fresh seafood, the menu is paired with an award-winning wine list featuring over 350 selections. With attentive service and a refined atmosphere, it’s a top choice for an upscale night out.

    Mon:17:00 - 21:00

    Tue:17:00 - 21:00

    Wed:17:00 - 21:00

    Thu:17:00 - 21:00

    Fri:17:00 - 22:00

    Sat:20:50 - 22:00

    Sun:17:00 - 21:00

    Last updated on: 23-Dec-2024

    Equal Grounds Coffee House
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    750 South Avenue, Rochester, USA

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    Equal Grounds is an LGBTQ+-owned coffee house in Rochester that’s as warm and welcoming as the coffee it brews. With wraps, salads, desserts, and bold drinks, it’s a great spot to hang out and connect. 

    The space has free WiFi, board games, and a “Pay It Forward” board, allowing patrons to sponsor meals for those in need. Its art-filled interior creates a relaxed atmosphere for guests to connect and unwind.

    Mon:07:00 - 18:00

    Tue:07:00 - 18:00

    Wed:07:00 - 21:00

    Thu:07:00 - 21:00

    Fri:07:00 - 18:00

    Sat:08:00 - 18:00

    Sun:08:00 - 18:00

    Last updated on: 23-Dec-2024

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