The Best Gay Sex Shops in the USA

We’ve put together the definitive list of the USA’s most historic gay sex shops. You can buy your gear online today but nothing beats seeing a jockstrap in all its glory before purchasing it. And who knows, you may find something you didn’t even know you were looking for.

It's important to support LGBTQ+ businesses: none will be any gayer than the ones we have listed here.

The Pleasure Chest – Los Angeles, CA

Located in the heart of West Hollywood, The Pleasure Chest has been a staple in the adult industry since 1971. This iconic store is known for its extensive selection of high-quality adult toys, lingerie, and BDSM gear. What sets The Pleasure Chest apart is its commitment to public health education and community involvement. The store regularly hosts workshops, events, and seminars on various aspects of sexual health and pleasure. If you’re strolling down Santa Monica Blvd and you suddenly realize you need a new harness, The Pleasure Chest is waiting for you.

Circus of Books - Los Angeles, CA

Circus of Books in Los Angeles is probably the most iconic shop on this list. Established in 1982 by Karen and Barry Mason, the original store is located at 8230 Santa Monica Boulevard in West Hollywood. This shop quickly became a vital resource for the gay community, offering a vast selection of LGBTQ+ literature, adult films, magazines, and various adult products during a time when such materials were not widely accessible. A second shop was later established to cater to the growing demand.

Babeland – New York, NY

Babeland, with locations in New York City and Seattle, is an LGBTQ-owned adult store. Founded by two women in 1993, Babeland has been providing “toys for a passionate world” ever since. 

The store offers an impressive selection of toys, books, and accessories, catering to all genders and orientations. They also go out of their way to support LGBTQ-owned brands.

The Stockroom – Los Angeles, CA

The Stockroom, located in Los Angeles, is a premier destination for those interested in BDSM and fetish gear. Founded in 1988, this shop has earned a reputation for its high-quality products especially if you’re a leather enthusiast. The Stockroom offers a wide range of gear, toys, and apparel, catering to both beginners and experienced practitioners.

Weird bit of trivia: Taylor Swift decked out her dancers in leather gear from this very shop for the Bad Blood video. Further reading: The best gay dating and hookup apps for men

Good Vibrations – San Francisco, CA

Founded in 1977, Good Vibrations is a pioneer in the adult industry, known for its focus on female pleasure and empowerment. With locations in San Francisco, Berkeley, and other cities, Good Vibrations offers a wide range of toys, books, and accessories. The Polk Street store even has its own vibrator museum.

The Pleasure Chest – Chicago, IL

The Chicago branch of The Pleasure Chest upholds the same standards as its Los Angeles counterpart. Located in the Lakeview neighborhood, this store offers an extensive selection of adult products, including many toys for gay customers. They also have a trans section.

There’s a gender-neutral bathroom where you can try some products on. Although some products will need to be purchased if you do try them for obvious reasons. Further reading: How to book a gay massage when traveling

Smitten Kitten – Minneapolis, MN

The charmingly named Smitten Kitten, located in Minneapolis, is a unique and inclusive adult store that prioritizes sexual health and education. Founded in 2003, Smitten Kitten offers a carefully curated selection of sex toys, books, and accessories, with a focus on body-safe and ethically produced products. This is a must-see shop for the more socially conscious pleasure seeker.

Mr. S Leather – San Francisco, CA

Mr. S Leather is a renowned destination for leather and fetish gear in San Francisco’s SoMa district. Founded in 1979, this store has earned a reputation for its high-quality products. San Fran is where the leather community first emerged and this shop became their go-to place. They have separate sections for different categories: leather, pup play, etc. They even do a July 4th barbeque so be sure to celebrate Independence Day in, um, style.

A Woman’s Touch – Madison, WI

A Woman’s Touch, located in Madison, is a female-owned adult store that focuses on sexual health and education. Founded in 1996, A Woman’s Touch offers seminars on female pleasure and services such as a “Couples’ Massage”. The staff are very helpful so you won’t be embarrassed to ask for advice when purchasing your items.

Lady Konfidential – New York, NY

Founded in 1974, Eve’s Garden is known - as the name subtly hints - for its female-centric toys. It was then rebranded as Lady Konfidential. Billed as a “discreet pleasure boutique”, it’s a welcoming place for all genders and sexualities if you’re looking to spice things up. It’s on the same street as the legendary Carnegie Hall.